Have you ever wonder why would one just keep quiet when being scold by someone else? It's not because that person has done any wrong but was scolded unnecessarily by the other person without knowing what has 'I' done wrong. Being scolded is one thing, what about not being able to know what was wrong or being able to fight back.
I have gone thru these situation before and I understand what it feels. Not being able to fight back is something hard for one person, especially if that person is used to talk all out without having to bother what is the consequences so that they don't have to worry about that problem again later. Many people will tell you worry about the problem later, "what you can do it have fun now to comfort yourself, relax." Have they ever thought that if I were to worry about the problem later, there may not be any solution to the problem and it will only make matters worse. There are times where people will start to think about anything. And this is the time they will start thinking of all the problems that they have gone thru. The problems they thought may be those that they have solved but they will will also think of those problems that they have not solve. These problems are the ones that makes them do a lot of thinking. These problems are the ones that make them confuse on what they are doing.
If one person keeps too much things to themselves, they will start to change themselves. They will start to change to a passive person. And when one becomes a passive person, people surrounding them will start to notice and they might dissappear. What I mean disappear is that they will start to leave you and you will start losing your friend. When one lose a friend, they will be start to be lonely and when one is lonely, they have no friend to talk to aboout their problem. So whatever you do, don't turn yourself into a passive person and start isolating yourself. Isolating yourself means that you start to lose friends and when you have no friends, there is no one to talk to.
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